Fortunately I do not know anyone neither have I experienced
any of the stressors in the list that was presented to the class. So I decided
that I would just do some research on how children or adults cope with
stressors in a different country.
According to the text excessive cortisol (the primary stress
hormone) may flood the brain and destroy part of the hippocampus. Permanent
deficits in learning and memory may result as “children exposed to traumatic or
stressful events have an increased probability of developing major depression,
post-traumatic stress disorder, and attention-deficit/hyperactivity”. Since developing
brains are fragile, “prolonged physiological responses to stress and challenge put
children at risk for a variety of problems in childhood, including physical and
mental disorders, poor emotional regulation and cognitive impairments” (Berger,
2014).
In Nigeria there is stress dealing with women’s mental
health and work/family conflict. Mental health can be described as the ability
to respond to many varied experiences of life with flexibility and a sense of purpose.
There arises a strain on Nigerian women’s mental health as they struggle to
balance the multiple competing demands on their time and energy. This strain or
conflict often occurs as the Nigerian women employees try to meet the needs of
their spouses, children, elderly parents, community and employers. This situation
is referred to as work-family conflict. This situation can lead to fatigue and
other mental health problems in the Nigeria women.
Studies have shown that a good social support network can
help to alleviate most of these mental health effects of these stressors. High
levels of social support may be an important prognostic factor in recovery from
mental health problems suffered by women.
I think that plenty of women can relate to the same stress
issues here in the United States, especially the work/family conflict. Some
women overwhelm themselves by making sure everyone else is taken care of except
for themselves, that to me is the definition of selflessness (unselfish,
self-sacrificing) and at some point you do have to take care of yourself
(physically, mentally, emotionally) – if you don’t who will? When women or parents
neglect the well-being of themselves and worry only about the children things
can become a little stressful and some parent become irritable which can lead
to abuse towards the children because they are not in their right minds because
of the stress that they are under. Then when the child is enduring abuse it can
lead to many other issues that can have long term effect on the child and the
parent.
References
Berger, K. S. (2014). The Developing Person
Through Childhood. New York: Worth Publishers.
Oluwole, D. A., Hammed, A. T., & Awaebe, J. I.
(2014, September 27). Patterns of Stress, Social Support, and Mental
Health among Nigerian Women. Retrieved from Advancing Women In Leadership
Journal:
http://advancingwomen.com/awl/awl_wordpress/patterns-of-stress-social-support-and-mental-health-among-nigerian-women/